Why am I an entrepreneur? “We’ve made the decision to let you go,” my boss said over the telephone. I was shocked and upset.That was, the first time.
The second time I was let go, not so much. By the third time I said to myself, “Never again.” I am not going to put myself in a position where how I earn my living is dictated by someone else’s priorities.
I learned to work hard when I was young and frankly, since I’m a Baby Boomer, being a workaholic is normal and I always wanted my own business. I remember more than one person saying to me, you can’t start a company (you girl, you), what could you possibly do? As angry as I was at them, I used the anger to motivate me.
Assessing the possibilities I had a bunch of skills, foreign languages, marketing, healthcare, blah, blah, blah. They didn’t really fit together into a solid plan for earning a living being an entrepreneur. So I devised a three pronged strategy for creating income.
2) Speaking and workshops
Getting started I met with a lot of people and talked about my idea. Some nodded, “Hmmmm, I could see them thinking, she’ll never make this work.” Some tried to discourage me, “Get a job,” and a few encouraged me, “You can do it!”
I can report that 5 years in, I am doing better than I ever hoped. It isn’t what I expected and that’s not only good, it’s fun.
You can do it too. So if you are wondering where your next job is going to come from… I will ask you this; what will it take for you to say, “Enough. I’m gonna try something different? I can guarantee you will learn more in 1 year on your own path than you will in 5 years working for someone else. If, at any point, you decide to go work for someone else, you’ll be even more valuable to that employer. You will be a better problem solver, see the big picture and actually empathize more with your boss in a different way.
But I can’t…. I have responsibilities The first time I co-founded a start up I was the single mother of 2 kids, 14 and 12 with no family to help me. That start up only lasted 2 years, thanks to 9/11, but I learned so much and my actions showed my children how to go for what they want and to not be afraid.
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Carl HoffmanMay 13, 2014
I have had an easier life than you. I have always had financial security but there are other needs. I discovered that I have a need to be relevant. Your daughter gave me an idea to try and I am doing it. You should see the notes I am getting not only on that site but also on Facebook. My ego is getting stroked while I am making some sort of positive difference. I was in a declining market and now I am reaching more people than before.
DeborahMay 18, 2014
Hi Carl. I am not surprised that what you are sharing is resonating with people. We change each other by reaching out! thanks for letting me know how you are.